Abasore benshi bajya bibeshya ko bigoye kumenya niba umukobwa cyangwa umugore ashaka gutera akabariro cyangwa imibonano kuko batazi uburyo babireba ngo babimenye. Nyamara iyo umukobwa cyangwa umugore yifuje gukora imibonano n’umugabo cyangwa umusore bari kumwe hari ibimenyetso agaragaza ku buryo wabireba ugahita ubimenya.

Bimwe muri ibyo bimenyetso ni ibi bikurikira:

Arakwegera cyane: Ashaka guhora hafi yawe, akagukorakora cyangwa agashaka ko muvana mu bandi mukaba muri ahantu heza mwembi gusa.

Kuguha ibimenyetso by’amaso: Arakureba cyane, guhuza amaso bikaba kenshi, kandi akagenda akwereka isura ituje n’inseko yihariye.

Imyitwarire y’umubiri: Ashobora kugira uburyo bwo kuzunguza cyane amaguru cyangwa akajya acishamo akiroba gake gake mu buryo bukurura.

Kugira ibyiyumvo byinshi: Iyo muri kumwe yumva ahumeka cyane cyangwa umutima we ugatera vuba, ndetse akanamira amacandwe kenshi biturutse ku bushabe afite.

Kuvuga cyangwa gukora ibintu byerekeye imibonano: Ashobora gukoresha amagambo cyangwa ibikorwa byorohereza ibiganiro byerekeye ibijyanye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina.